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Safety & consent

What is grooming?

  • Short answer
  • Reading level 13-15
  • Grooming is the process of building trust with someone in order to exploit them, usually over time, and often by an older person. It usually involves secrecy, testing boundaries, gaining control of information, and gradually increasing what is asked for.

    What this does and does not tell you

    This is general information, not a diagnosis. Only a clinician can examine you, take your history and run tests. The same symptom has different causes in different people.

    If something is sudden, severe, or getting worse quickly, get medical advice rather than reading on.